I have found that the subject of miscarriage or early labor is not talked about much. Why? I have searched the net to find blogs of people who have had similar experiences, by reading their blogs I feel comforted. There is one problem though, I haven't found many. In fact I have only found one. I am starting this blog for my own grieving process. I don't want to forget this experience, why would I?
Going through this has helped me realize that there is sooo much more to look forward to than just this life on earth. I cannot wait to meet Clementine. I am sharing my experience so that hopefully, some grieving mother/father may feel comfort and know that there are people out there (like me) who know what they are going though. Sorry, but for me it is hard to accept people say "sorry, I know this must be hard." I think to myself, "yeah, it is hard. But you having sympathy for me isn't much help. You don't know what I am going though." Is it just common courtesy to say something nice? Sometimes it is just best to no say nothing at all.

Just hold me as I cry and that is all I need from you.